For women who, on the outside, seem like everything is going well, but inside, struggle to feel confident in who they are. You might find you self-doubt, people-please, or often feel like you're either 'too much' or 'not quite enough' both in yourself, and in relationships.
If you find yourself caught in patterns like doubting and second-guessing yourself, overthinking or replaying conversations in your head, being hard on yourself, or always prioritising other people over yourself, you're not alone. Many of the women I work with have carried these same struggles. On the outside, things may seem fine, they're thoughtful, they care, but inside, they may struggle to know who they are, feel insecure in relationships, or question their worth or value.
I’ve supported many women through these same feelings, and I’ve seen how things can begin to shift when you understand where they come from, why they’re there, and begin to heal the deeper roots underneath. When we approach these patterns with curiosity, compassion, and without judgment, it creates space for something new. You can feel more confident, grounded, and develop a stronger, more secure sense of self, healthier, more fulfilling relationships. and quiet knowing that you’re enough, exactly as you are.
Hi, I'm Nicola, a therapist and fellow human. I live in Newcastle Upon Tyne, and I love the beach, coffee, and comfy outfits! I'm passionate about supporting women to feel truly confident in themselves and in relationships.
For a lot of my life, I struggled with confidence myself, always putting other people on a pedestal and thinking I had to change myself to fit in and feel accepted. I'd often end up in patterns of overthinking, people-pleasing, and questioning if i was enough, especially in relationships.
Going through a difficult time in my late twenties, where I felt extremely lost and disconnected, and when I started therapy, was when everything changed for me, and ultimately what inspired me to become a therapist myself.
Therapy helped me uncover where these patterns had come from and why I struggled with certain things, like self-doubt, prioritising myself, and sharing my feelings authentically, so much. But, most importantly, it became a place for healing, finding myself, and starting to recognise my worth and value for the first time, which has been so freeing and has impacted so many other areas of my life positively, including my friendships, health, relationships, work, and career.
I now believe self-worth to be at the heart of a lot of struggles, which is why I wanted to specialise in this in my own practice.
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Q1 How does therapy work?
Each session is a space for you to explore the challenges you’re currently facing, understand yourself more deeply, and begin healing and taking gentle steps forward towards feeling calmer, more grounded and secure, both within yourself and your relationships.
Q2 Who is therapy best suited for?
My therapy space is best suited to those who are ready to heal the deeper roots of their experiences around confidence, self-worth and relationships so that they can create more meaningful, lasting change.
Q3 How much are sessions?
Sessions are £70 for 60 minutes and can be booked weekly or fortnightly. I also offer some monthly sessions and concessionary rates to help make therapy more accessible. Please feel free to ask if you'd like to find out more.
Q4 Where do sessions take place?
Sessions take place fully online, offering flexibility and ease and meaning you can wrap up in your favourite blanket if you want to! You'll receive a reminder with the video link to join before each session.
Q4 How many sessions do I need?.
It's completely dependent on you and the amount of support you need; some people have short-term therapy 6-12 sessions, whilst others prefer longer-term support, which is great too. I alwaus do regular reviews and check-ins to make sure you are getting what you need from therapy.
Q5 What's your availability for sessions?
I currently work Monday to Thursday, 11 am to 7.30 pm, UK Time. We'll usually meet at the same time each week or every other week, helping create consistency and a steady space for the work we do together.
Q6 What are your qualifications?
I have a BA (Hons) and an Advanced Diploma in Integrative Therapy, and I am accredited by the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS). I also attend regular supervision and CPD.
Q7 I'm nervous about starting. Is this normal?
It’s completely normal to feel nervous about starting therapy, especially if it's your first time. My priority is to always make the space as comfortable as possible, and to go at a pace that feels right for you.
Q8 Do you offer a free consultation?
Yes, I offer a free consultation call. This is a chance for you to share a little about your current struggles, what you're hoping to achieve in therapy, and to see if we might be a good fit. You can get in touch below to book your call below, I'd love to support you.
From the very first session Nicola’s warmt and understanding made me feel at ease, she helped me peel back the layers of self-doubt and emotional diconnection, guiding me to reconnect with my genuine emotions and express myself with passion, fun and gentleness once again.
As someone who wasn't a vulnerable person, it was such a weird experience for me going into therapy and actually enjoying talking about things, it felt like a breath of fresh air.
I got to do fun exercises where I got to know myself even better than I knew before. I'll always credit Nicola for opening the doors to this version of me.”
You made me feel so comfortable from the first session through to our last and I am so grateful I found you and grateful for the space you held from the get go, you immediately got me.
She creates a beautiful safe space, we also have done so many useful tasks and also she’s hit the nail on the head with so many things, Building inner safety and inner child work was a big takeaway for me.